Speak Our Language or Go to Jail

April 15th, 2008 | Foxes

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“Do you think we are going to supply you with a translator all of your life?” the judge asked them.

If you had the option of going to jail for two years or learning a second language, what would you do? Such was the proposition that three Spanish-speaking men faced when arrested for accosting two men on a street. The judge ordered that instead of sitting in jail for 24 months, the men could learn English, get their GEDs, and find a full-time job.

This ruling is unsettling to me in that it associates learning English with a good and proper lifestyle.

Now, I am obviously all for learning a second language, but not when it’s forced upon you as though your native language (and hence culture) is inferior. Being an English speaker does not a wholesome person make. Hell, I can think of a lot of English speakers that know the American constitution inside and out and do horrible things. And while I do agree that learning English (as with any other second language) will help them in the long run, it is that quote above that makes me think the ruling was made out of annoyance than anything else.

Source: Judge sentences Hispanic men to learn English - MSN

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Increasing Career Opportunities for Japanese Women

April 9th, 2008 | Foxes

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Source: Japan Times

Things are starting to look up with new Prime Minister Yasuo Fukuda’s plans to increase career opportunities for women.

The government is pledging with the program to increase women’s social participation in areas where they have yet to play significant roles, including medical services, public services and science.

Gender equality minister Yoko Kamikawa plans to visit business group leaders and encourage the hiring of more women for managerial posts.

The program aims to raise the percentage of female employees in the central government ranked higher than section chief or equivalent to at least 5 percent by the end of fiscal 2010 from 1.7 percent in fiscal 2005.

I’ve mentioned before about the slow-but-noticeable increase in gender equality, but it’s still nowhere near ideal (or some semblence of.) It seems that the higher ups are starting to realize that without gender equality, a nation is only performing half as well as it could be–not to mention that Japan’s embarrassingly low gender equality statistics are constantly being thrown about.

I’m not sure if simple encouragement is enough, although this is a step in the right direction.  We need to see more examples of women leading successful lives in Japan to serve as role models for those following in their footsteps.  Although there is certainly nothing wrong with dreaming of becoming a housewife, it seems that so much talent and bright minds are going to waste because of ingrained societal expectations.  (Case in point: is there any reason why Empress Masako, a Harvard undergraduate and Oxford alum who is fluent in 3 languages, had give up everything in order to marry the Prince?)

Source: New program to boost women in workplace - Japan Times

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Japanese Sports Wives: More Than Just Trophies

April 7th, 2008 | Foxes

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There’s a lot of noise regarding Hideki Matsui’s marriage, which is very atypical of most sports marriages in Japan. Normally a sports celebrity marries someone in the entertainment or news industry to increase PR–in other words, make them look good. The woman, an attractive TV personality, normally quits her job after she gets married to the sport celeb, and is often older than him because naturally someone who leads such a stressful life needs a mother-figure in his life.

Now let’s take a look at Matsui’s marriage: his wife is a “regular person,” is eight years younger than him, and can make a “mean burger.” What? Marrying out of love? Japanese people?

Whereas other sports wives are public figures and remain famous for helping their husbands become famous, nobody even knows what Matsui’s wife looks like–just some sketches him and his brother drew for the press (awww. I think?)

Of course interest is piqued in this mystery woman, but it seems that Matsui is going at lengths to keep her identity a secret. I find this marriage to be a cool exception to the norm because Japanese marriages (especially celebrity ones) are traditionally not out of love but out of obligation of continuing family lineage. To marry someone who may even end up hurting your career takes a lot of guts, which makes me think this isn’t a PR stunt. This will be one time I root for a Yankees’ player :D

Source: Matsui’s got a nice wife, but can she cook a mean hamburger? - Japan Times

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“A Woman Must Pretend That Things are OK” and Other Words to Live By

April 2nd, 2008 | Foxes

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Came across this piece in the Japan Times. It is an interview with Hiroko Mito, who is celebrating the 10th anniversary of her bar in Shibuya. It’s an interesting summation of what life is like for a working woman in Japan raising children with a less-than-ideal husband. One point she makes is something that hits really close to home and is pretty commonplace thinking in Japan:

A woman must pretend that things are OK, and she had better do it very convincingly. My husband was far from perfect: He had girlfriends, lost all of our money and was not around much. Of course, I hid that part of him from our children. I always talked about him with respect and love because I wanted the kids to feel happy and safe, and loving their father was essential for that. For kids, a parent is always a parent, no matter what he or she does, and it’s the wife’s job to make sure they have the kind of father they can love, even if it means enhancing his good qualities to the point of lying.

For most Western eyes, this way of thinking may seem very strange but is in fact not unusual in Japan, where women are expected to pretend all the time–even when it comes to divorce:

No child wants his or her parents divorced: they love both their mom and dad. So if parents love their children, they should pretend to be happy for the kids’ sake. Of course, really being happy is even better!

“Saving face” in Japan is a socially ingrained concept of not letting others see your true feelings. Along with concepts of (gaman suru) “sticking with it” and (issho kenmei ganbaru) “doing your absolute best,” it’s no wonder people will overwork themselves–even to the point of dying. However, it is this same mentality that allows people like Hiroko to overcome even the greatest obstacles.

Unless you throw your pride out the window, you’ll never survive. By the time I was in my late 30s, I had owned my own restaurant for a good 15 years. I was always working and never asked my husband what he was doing. Unfortunately, he accumulated an immense amount of debt. Not only did we lose everything we had — including the restaurant — we still owed a ton more. To make things worse, he had a stroke and could no longer work. For the next 17 years I don’t remember sleeping much, because I only thought about paying back what he owed. At 6 a.m. I would clean a store, then I made beds at a hotel, waitressed at lunch, bartended afternoons and hostessed till late. I raced from job to job, and in between I’d run home to take care of the kids and him.

I’m not saying these points are wrong or right, but instead am trying to show readers a glimpse of what life is like for many Japanese women. It is common for Japanese people to view Westerners as self-centered and for Westerners to see Japanese society as one that revolves around group mentality. This article definitely points out the sacrifices made by many Japanese women.

Source: Snack mama Hiroko Mito - The Japan Times

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High School Girl Acquitted For Murdering Baby, Another Girl Found Hung

March 27th, 2008 | Foxes

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Sooo I just read two disturbing articles involving high school girls and restrooms.

First, a highschool girl from Wakayama has been acquitted for the death of her baby, which she gave birth to in a restroom. The baby drowned in a bowl, and the girl was consequently accused of murderous intent. Fortunately the judge looked at the case rationally, stating empathy for the girl:

“She experienced tougher hardship than ordinary women who give birth, as she delivered the baby in the breech position in the restroom without anybody’s help.”

I wonder how this case would be handled in America–would people push for stricter abstinence programs? Support programs for teen moms? I can only imagine the stigma that will surround this girl as the case progresses.

Second comes a girl who was found hung in a junior high restroom stall in Akita. Although a suicide note was found, there was supposedly no indication that the suicide was a direct result of bullying, despite having some problems with friends. Japan has some of the highest suicide rates in the world, which doesn’t help their shrinking youth population and increasing elders.

Source: High school girl acquitted of murdering baby born in restroom - Mainichi Daily News
Source: Schoolgirl found hanged in Akita junior high school toilet - Mainichi Daily News

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Asian Feminists: They Exist

March 26th, 2008 | Foxes

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Yuri Kochiyama

For my senior thesis, I am preparing to write a paper on the roles of women as portrayed by popular Japanese authors, both female and male. Reading the biography of one famous literary author, Tanizaki Junichiro, I was a little disturbed to read this passage from one of his essays:

One of the things I am currently interested in doing is to delineate the psychology of a Japanese woman of the feudal period, without giving it a modern interpretation and yet with such verisimilitude as to appeal to the modern reader’s emotions and understanding. I want to draw a truly lifelike portrait of a woman who believed in the neo-Confucian moral codes and who was therefore bound by them–a woman of bygone days who was reserved in all things, who was taught to suppress her feelings on all occasions, and who seldom showed her face to any person of the opposite sex except her husband. Yet it would not be easy to portray the hypersensitive workings of such a woman’s mind. Despite her wholly virtuous appearance, she could have been harboring thoughts of an illicit love that had not yet taken definite form. Jealousy, hatred, cruelty, and other dark emotions may have cast their dim shadows on her mind time and again without ever floating to the surface. It would be difficult, indeed, to create a vivid portrait of a woman of this type, a woman whose entire life was confined to her inner world.

(Emphasis mine.)

It’s nothing new for (obviously scorned) men to look down on women in such a manner, but Tanizaki actually claimed that he was a feminist, and even compared his degree of feminism to other authors. This is the same man that coerced his wife to destroy their unborn baby because he was afraid it would ruin his image of her as a symbol of “old Japan” (in other words, being completely devoted to him.)

Luckily, Tanizaki was just one jaded exception. Asian feminists do exist, although people might not think of Asian women (and men!) when they hear the word “feminist.” I happened to come across this list of Asian feminists who have done extensive society-changing work in America. The list led me to this other list of inspirational Asian women, which consequently made this entry take a lot longer to write than originally planned.

So what about Japan? Japanese feminists are hard to spot since the word is fairly taboo in Japan (Wikipedia only lists 13 women, somehow omitting Yuri Kochiyama who is pictured above), but signs that changes are a-comin’ can definitely be seen. Take, for example, one of the little girls I teach English to: she speaks in the most masculine form of Japanese, using “ore” instead of the gender-neutral “watashi” or “atashi,” which is reserved for girls and gay men. Also, bands who consist of all women or headed by a woman seem to have an easier time breaking into the major music industry than in America, where bands are usually reserved for men. I already mentioned that comediennes in mainstream media in Japan seem to outnumber those in America. Gender roles are slowly reversing among young men and women, where men want to be with women who are stronger than them.

Mizuho Fukushima, the leader of Japan’s opposition Democratic Party, is just one of an increasing number of women who are revolutionizing women’s rights in Japan:

[Fukushima] is the author of such books as What Happens When A Woman Becomes A Politician and Never Get Married To A Man Like This.

She wants to give women the right to keep their maiden name, an uphill struggle that has so far seen a bill rejected 10 times, and is an advocate of the rights of children born out of wedlock, which negatively affects their inheritance. Ms Fukushima, 52, has kept her maiden name and has not married her partner with whom she has a child.

She also campaigns against sexual harassment, domestic violence and for improved maternity leave and child care. When she was elected to the Upper House, 10 years ago, she had to share the male lavatories. Now she and her female colleagues have separate loos.

Despite these trends, Japan is still painfully behind in sexual equality. Women have a harder time moving up in the business world and are expected to quit after they get married/have kids (and are often harassed or threatened if they don’t.) Asian women in general are looked down upon by men of all races as subservient and aiming to please.

I don’t think I make it apparent enough on this blog how important women’s issues are to me, even though I have spent the last year and half of my school career researching and writing on women in Japan. Hopefully that will change, as I continue to research women’s issues in Asia and Japan in particular.

Sources:
- Asian/ APIA Feminism/ Women’s History Month - WOC PhD
- Inspirational Asian/APIA Women - Reappropriate
- English Wikipedia’s page on Japanese Feminists
- Japanese Wikiepedia’s page onf Feminism in Japan
- Japan’s gender inequality puts it to shame in world rankings - Japan Times
- Japan’s concrete ceiling - The Independent

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Mom Abandons Kids for 10 Days

March 26th, 2008 | Foxes

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Sad news from Reuters on an incident in which a mom of three leaves her children to fend for themselves for 10 days, which resulted in the death of the youngest 2-year old:

Megumi Shimamura, 29, had apparently moved house and left the children alone in their old residence, a police spokesman in Saitama, just north of Tokyo, told Reuters on Saturday.

Shimamura, a divorcee, called her parents and asked them to check on the children on Friday, the Mainichi Shimbun newspaper said in a separate report.

When they did, they found the body of her two-year-old son, Kenta, lying on a quilt. Kenta’s twin sister, weakened from hunger, was taken to hospital. Their 6-year-old brother was unharmed.

There are lots of different angles to this case but it seems that the negligence stemmed from depression and neurosis from having to raise three children as a divorcee, which is often stigmatized in Japan.

Source: Japanese mother abandons kids for 10 days, one dies - Reuters

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Female Blogger Wins Coveted Akutagawa Award

March 25th, 2008 | Foxes

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Kawakami Meiko turned blogging into a literary art form when she won the highly acclaimed Akutagawa Award for best new writer. Originally started to promote her music career, Kawakami started to get attention from readers for her writings instead.

Kawakami won the award with her third novel that was compiled with her prose-like blog entries, which stand out from your run-of-the-mill shlock that come with more personal blogs. There is, of course, some criticism from the more conservative literary critics (what else is new?), but I think Kawakami’s winning the Akutagawa Award is a great breakthrough for Japanese women writers.

…Kawakami’s voice is winning accolades for exploiting the drawling dialect of Osaka, the western city where she grew up, which is emerging as the hip language of modern-day Japan — the language of the standup comics and vernacular slang.

Adding to the appeal, Kawakami’s award-winning novella, “The Breast and the Egg,” explores the ideas of divorce, the questioning of beauty standards and other themes of solitary womanhood that are still relatively new territory in Japanese literature. Kawakami’s stories in some ways are those of Japan’s Everywoman.

For now, she said, she wants to stay away from stories of relationships with men and sexuality that characterized past Japanese female writing.

“It’s about living, our body, the changes of the heart that accompany the body, the urgency, the problems being born, moment by moment,” Kawakami said. “The fact that we are always doing our best at living.”

Amen. You can read her blog at her official site here.

Source:
- Blogging turns Japanese singer into star writer who gives voice to solitary women - Mainichi Daily News

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Samurai Girl to Become a TV Series

March 24th, 2008 | Foxes

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OK, so there is this series of books called Samurai Girl, which focuses on a protagonist named Heaven Kogo who is forced into marrying some guy because her father is part of a yakuza gang, and now she is learning how to become a samurai so she can avenge her brother’s death, who was killed at her wedding by a ninja. Yeah, I vomited a little too.

Aside from the books playing into every imaginable Asian stereotype you can think of with constant allusions to Japanese-y things (see excerpt above), ABC Family has decided to turn it into TV show so that young Americans can continue to grow up associating Japan with:

- samurai
- ninja
- marrying off daughters
- yakuza
- people who are named Heaven and other “enlightening” names more suitable for pets (”Teddy,” “Tough,” “Sumo”)
- the idea that all Asian girls can secretly kick your ass

And all of these stereotypes I was able to pick just from reading the excerpts and summaries. Not to mention that none of the actors on the show are Japanese. How can something so blatantly ignorant get published for the masses?

Ugh.

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Living in Two Worlds: Moving Abroad

March 5th, 2008 | Foxes

This month’s Kansai Scene has three interesting articles on moving abroad. Not just limited to Japan, the articles cover reasons why one might choose to live abroad, and the resulting impact:

The expatriate becomes hung between two states, never quite of the place she or he lives, and separate from the culture of the home country. In the UK, returned expats are sometimes known derisively as ‘When Is’ for the perceived habit of beginning anecdotes, ‘When I was in Osaka/Vilnius/Bangkok/Johannesburg …”

There are lots of reasons to move abroad, but it comes with a lot of research and inevitable culture shock. Studying abroad is very close to what it might be like to live in the country, but the experience is filtered through the lense of the school and an English-speaking environment. You are in a safe community where you can find other English-speaking people for small doses of home. But once you move abroad for real, it might be hard getting started and creating a new network of friends from scratch (not to mention in another language.)

On the other hand, moving abroad might be ideal for those who don’t feel in tune with their own culture, or who know that they are “destined for greater things.”  Moving abroad definitely helps you grow up fast and get to know yourself a lot better, especially when doing it on your own.  Parents are not just a phone call away–often times they can be in a completely opposite time zone.  All you have is yourself to rely on.

Having traveled between the States and Japan my entire life, I know the feeling of being inbetween worlds all too well. People always ask me where do I feel the most comfortable, or what nationality do I feel I’m more like. I don’t have an answer to either of those questions–both places are my home, and at the same time neither are. I don’t feel in tune with either culture–not the misogynstic oppressiveness of Japan, nor the self-centered consumer society that makes up America.  But I wouldn’t be who I am if I hadn’t lived in either country, which just goes to show the catch-22 of the whole thing–you have a wider perspective on the world, but it’s hard to find a place to call home.

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